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Hey Steve: The Friend’s Wife Causes Problems || STEVE HARVEY

She’s been friends with a man for over 10 years, and now his wife is causing problems. Should she expect him to defend their friendship?
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  1. Papa Cage

    Papa Cage

    6 giờ trước

    Everyone in this comment section could be on r/nicegirls If this dude's wife is so insecure about their realtionship that he can't have female friends then the female friends aren't the problem. Men and women can be friends without any other feelings being there, and just because they aren't related by blood doesn't mean they can't have a brother-sister type of relationship.

  2. giselle joseph

    giselle joseph

    Ngày trước

    Girl define friend to a married man she would not trust u

  3. kgoldmon


    2 ngày trước

    "The Friend's Wife Causes Problems"? uh no, more like "The Husband's Friend Causes Problems for the Wife"

  4. Kevin A.

    Kevin A.

    4 ngày trước

    It's over sis 😂 until you get married too or something

  5. Carleen-Mariee


    8 ngày trước

    I feel like the comments in here are a little harsh. I Defo agree, okay it’s his wife so she should fall back, but imagine having a bestfriend for years that’s become family and you genuinely don’t see them in an form of romantic way and then because the wife in my opinion is insecure, you lose that friendship. I see it from both perspectives🤷🏾‍♀️. My question is, does that wife have any guy friends? Has she been allowed to keep them? Hmmm and if the shoe was switched would the reaction be the same. I don’t know

  6. Sparkle LovesYou

    Sparkle LovesYou

    9 ngày trước

    Ppl are crazy... You have no place inn their marriage period. No way to get around that. I had a platonic relationship with a friend and he got married and his wife wouldn't meet me and didn't want me around I told him that he had to honor her wishes. No one comes before your wife/husband. If she was a true friend she would understand that. If she was a real woman with pure intentions she wouldn't press the issue and respectfully back off like she would want a woman to do if she were someone's wife.

  7. Chuna G

    Chuna G

    14 ngày trước

    Bye girl

  8. Vreanna Renee

    Vreanna Renee

    16 ngày trước

    No ma'am leave them alone. You are not above his wife.

  9. Tonice Mon’a

    Tonice Mon’a

    16 ngày trước


  10. Rondellius Linthicumis

    Rondellius Linthicumis

    16 ngày trước

    My niece was married and she had several men as friends!. Her husband did not care because they we all just friends and he knew this!. He never ever had a problem with her Male friends!.

  11. TMac473


    16 ngày trước

    I’d love to hear Steve’s advice if the sexes were reversed. So many women think it’s ok to have a male “friend”. Hypocrisy 101

  12. ams30393


    17 ngày trước

    Trust me. You are going to be 60 still not married, waiting for him. Why would you go to such length of having an altercation with wife over her husband you call friend? Why do you want the husband to be between your fights? Leave them alone and find a husband. Never fight with this woman. She is right. You were friends. Accept that the friendship is over. Move on even to a different city. Moving on is easier that way. Goodness. My 6th sense is telling me the friendship is more. One is lying to the other.

  13. j Pat

    j Pat

    18 ngày trước

    I had a male friend like that. I just faded into the background. This girl ain't got enough sense to do the same.

  14. plum 777

    plum 777

    18 ngày trước

    No, thank you 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  15. reggie paramoure

    reggie paramoure

    18 ngày trước

    This is a very sensitive topic in monogamous relationships. I believe the husband should have an open conversation with his wife to gain clarity on the situation. If in the conversation the wife reveals being uncomfortable with the situation with legit reason then as husband you must set the necessary boundaries with your female friend. If she’s a true friend she’ll understand and play her part but if she’s not she’ll disappear like the rest of your fake friends.

  16. MrsAmayaKobe


    18 ngày trước

    👩🏽 if you don’t take a seat and wait on your on man 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿💯💯💯

  17. tshireletso khumalo

    tshireletso khumalo

    18 ngày trước

    Handling it respectfully would've been to leave 'em alone...

  18. Sha


    19 ngày trước

    For once i disagree with steeve if is a friends from a very long time like a bff because me i do believe in male and female friendship most of women who dont like female around day they still have a male friend (bff) 😒

  19. Efua Abok

    Efua Abok

    19 ngày trước

    Very well spoken lady

  20. NANO BOT


    19 ngày trước


  21. True Real Pearl

    True Real Pearl

    20 ngày trước

    Why do people take so long to get to their question?!?

  22. Jae Jae

    Jae Jae

    22 ngày trước

    Steve’s so smart. Love his directness

  23. T.C. Harris-Durrant

    T.C. Harris-Durrant

    22 ngày trước

    Why do females always quote years when talking about a friend. So many of you all don't respect the friend zone go away.. You think way too highly of yourself like he supposed choose you. Get over yourself. Know your place and move on.

  24. naturally_blessing


    22 ngày trước

    I love how she tried to articulate that well. Psshhh. Honey, wake up. You are 'the other woman' that every Wife hates. Goodbye.

  25. Mariana Estrada-Salas

    Mariana Estrada-Salas

    23 ngày trước

    I'm glad when my friends got married, we were all friends way before so we all hang out and there's nothing awkward no jealousy, nothing. I can hug my guy friends, sit next to them, joke around with them and their wives won't be mad because they're my friends too. We've all known each other 10+ years.

    • Alicia Dickson

      Alicia Dickson

      20 ngày trước


  26. Charlene Dukes

    Charlene Dukes

    23 ngày trước

    Girllllll You Got Nerve!!! Please MOVE ON..You NOT A VICTIM!🙄

  27. V


    24 ngày trước

    she wants her friend to have her back against his own wife 😂😂😂

  28. VIP TEAM


    24 ngày trước

    He picked the wife for a reason. Your friendship wasnt good enough to marry, just accept it.

  29. jamey smith

    jamey smith

    24 ngày trước

    She doesnt have a man.shes stupid as hell and lonely

  30. Emily W

    Emily W

    25 ngày trước

    I love when steve gets brutally honest.

  31. Iyinoluwa O

    Iyinoluwa O

    25 ngày trước

    Some of my mum's closest friends are guys, my dad is good friends with them now too (they go on guys trips together) & my mum does day trips with their wives but even when single, neither parent cut off the other's friends, just made friends with them as well. When everyone knows their place and the friendship is platonic, it can work. My parents still put each other first before even us kids and after God alone and their friend's respect that and do the same.

  32. Anasco KLA-US

    Anasco KLA-US

    25 ngày trước

    Obviously she is single, that's the bottom line. I completely understand the wife. So sad for this pretty young lady.

  33. no online harrassment

    no online harrassment

    25 ngày trước

    "the wife" she can't be that close with the famly like an aunt if she refers to her friend's wife as " the wife". That just rubbed me wrong. She obviously can't stand her. Move on and don't look back.

  34. Myrabel Gbe

    Myrabel Gbe

    26 ngày trước

    The fact that all y’all are ok with people being forced to lose friendships because of marriage is so weird, it’s no supposed to be that way

  35. RubyRim


    26 ngày trước

    Selfish as hell! This is why I start reducing my communication with my guy friends the minute they get married. I can't have anyone disrespecting me.



    26 ngày trước

    I dont understand girls / wives doing this. I understand distance and not being this close but how can you destroy a 10 year friendship? I doubt she'll do the same if her husband saids that wife cant be friends with this girl.

  37. Adwoa Dadson

    Adwoa Dadson

    26 ngày trước

    Back off girl He is married

  38. Asnate bedi

    Asnate bedi

    26 ngày trước

    i dont need to be married coz i dont need this type of drama

  39. Ms Lavender

    Ms Lavender

    26 ngày trước

    Girlfriend, Move on and stay out of their marriage - that includes, throwing shade at your "best friend's wife" on national television by referring to her as "the wife" and putting their marriage on blast before the world is not only disrespectful to your best friend and his wife; also, to their marriage. The best thing for you to do is honor your best friend's wife's request completely and respectfully - stay out of their marriage. Let it be and let it go. If they want you in their lives, they would reach out to you. Until that day comes, move with your life.

  40. Lara Spencer

    Lara Spencer

    26 ngày trước

    I think she’s having a hard time realizing she’s not number one anymore. They’re still friends but under the wife’s conditions and that’s how it’s gone be.... on the other hand women should stop being so insecure when it comes to men having relationships with other women.. if you trust your man then trust him because at the end of the day he’s going to do what he wants to do and there’s nothing you can say or do to control the outcome. I say let them be friends but homegirl need to know that she’s not number one and stay in her lane

  41. steffany G

    steffany G

    26 ngày trước

    There's no such thing as a man and women being just friends. Just doesnt work that way. Women need to stop playing stupid and start acting like Queens.

  42. Royal Jewel

    Royal Jewel

    26 ngày trước

    Have a hard time believing in male/female friendships. He married a woman who was his #1. It wasn’t her, find another “friend”.

  43. Marcus Wroten

    Marcus Wroten

    26 ngày trước

    Why put a bunch of silly preventive measures in place if they're going to cheat they're going to cheat there's nothing you can do about it so just deal with it when it happens insecurities kills many relationships just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you're dead maybe they're friends because he talks to her about what's going on in their relationship women forget sometimes y'all are very hard to talk to so we need an outside ear so that we know how to deal with you just my opinion however

  44. Marcus Wroten

    Marcus Wroten

    26 ngày trước

    Dude is punk why should Ace his friend of a decade because of his wife in security personally I would put my foot down and she would just have to deal with it it's not like they're screwing or anyting she's just naturally insecure this is ridiculous I can see if she was a new friend or hot coworker or something like that then I would understand the wife asked what she is just incredibly Petty and insecure

  45. PublicSpeaking202


    27 ngày trước

    She messy!! She has EVERY RIGHT to put this MESSY WOMAN IN Her place. HE'S MARRIED!!! She over there trying to play GOOD FRIEND! B$&# PLEASE!! We see thru all that. FAKKKE!!!

  46. Lydia Land

    Lydia Land

    27 ngày trước

    How stupid can you be, girl please, MOVE ON

  47. Haydee Johnson

    Haydee Johnson

    27 ngày trước

    WHAT THE WHAT!!!!????? Girrrrrrlllllll, keep it moving. Find yourself a husband of your own.

  48. Bowingbear CEO

    Bowingbear CEO

    27 ngày trước

    She never said they didn't have "a history" tho... 🤔😉

  49. Rodie N.A.O.

    Rodie N.A.O.

    27 ngày trước

    How stupid could she be?

  50. Kristy Kabui

    Kristy Kabui

    27 ngày trước

    Please, girl wake up, you didn't even need to ask Steve, it's sheer commonsense..he's not your brother, they not your nephews /nieces, he's married now, so stay away..Period..mother hen is protecting herself and family.

  51. JungKooksMom


    27 ngày trước

    Ooof. She came on live tv to talk about this man and his wife ... sit and think about that . Says a lot lol

  52. Roderick Sears

    Roderick Sears

    27 ngày trước

    The wife probably was uncomfortable because the friend looked better than her so she felt threatened so she destroyed that friendship on purpose because if the friend was unattractive the wife wouldn't have cared.

  53. Mzdynamitee


    27 ngày trước

    That's so sad . People cannot have platonic friendships when they are in a relationship. What a lonely life

  54. writerspen010


    27 ngày trước

    Looking through the comments, I feel like I'm the only one with a problem with how her guy friend handled the situation. Obviously the dynamic was going to change once he married, but they're still best friends. Your friends don't go away just because you're in a serious relationship or get married. I don't feel like there was enough context to explain why her friend's wife was rude. I assume she saw this woman as being too present, and possibly being a threat to her married (i.e. suspecting her husband had or could have developed feelings for this woman), but without more information about the instances when his new wife was rude to her, to me this reads as the wife being controlling about who her husband's friends are. Men and women can just be friends, and if nothing's happened between this woman and her guy friend after ten+ years of friendship, the wife shouldn't have anything to be worried about to the point where she is driving her husband's closest friends away.

  55. Judzel Riley

    Judzel Riley

    27 ngày trước

    The wife is so insecure

  56. Pesi Belau

    Pesi Belau

    27 ngày trước

    My uncle's wife told one his closed friend to stay away from her husband. When the friend went to complain to him about it, my uncle response was: it is her right as his wife to make that decision.

  57. Marshay H

    Marshay H

    28 ngày trước

    Agree with Steve

  58. 0009jerseygirl


    28 ngày trước

    I see Steve's point. However, I have a Male friend I've known for 40 years who is now married and we are still friends. The difference is his wife is not insecure and she and I are also friends. The relationship doesn't have to end because he got married. The wife's insecurity caused it to happen.

  59. Darling B

    Darling B

    28 ngày trước

    Does she lowkey want her husband 🙄??? He's married now she should get her own life or her own man

  60. Lisa Remer

    Lisa Remer

    28 ngày trước

    Wait til she's married and hubby carries his female friends along. Ha Ha. I've had a guy friend and when his wife felt threatened I stepped aside. In time we all became friends but you gotta walk and let it go where it goes 😃

  61. Lisa Remer

    Lisa Remer

    28 ngày trước

    Right on Steve!!!!

  62. Oghogho Imariagbe

    Oghogho Imariagbe

    28 ngày trước

    I understand the wife's perspective but there's always a way to handle situations without being rude to someone else. She could have just told her straight up.

  63. baby joedy

    baby joedy

    28 ngày trước

    Bye Felicia! You are not necessary.

    • Chasiraw


      11 ngày trước

      baby joedy 😲👏

  64. T C

    T C

    28 ngày trước

    I'D LOVE to see the telephone call log of who was calling who in this friendship???? Ya hear me?

  65. Jazmenn Ijeoma-Ihechu

    Jazmenn Ijeoma-Ihechu

    28 ngày trước

    I agree 100% with steve

  66. T C

    T C

    28 ngày trước

    He has 2 kids she considers nephews!!!??? PSYCHO!!

  67. T C

    T C

    28 ngày trước

    UGLY N DESPERATE talking on a national TV show because the cute wife got the catch!

  68. T C

    T C

    28 ngày trước


  69. T C

    T C

    28 ngày trước


  70. synchronicity676


    28 ngày trước

    Feel bad for her though...after all they childhood friends.. best years together, n then to feel he not supporting her on watever be d situation bet d wife n her... I don't see a man giving up his male friends for d wife so why in such albeit, rare relationship, shld he? In her case, she cut d rel but im sure she hurt waaaay's like a betrayal from a friend who won't stand up for u.. Don't think husband wife relationship should be a form to control d other.. it seems like wife doin tat.. I hope he does at least talk to this lady friend privately n explain his thoughts on it ..all d Best 💜

  71. Ladi Dodi

    Ladi Dodi

    28 ngày trước

    I hear Steve and understand what he's saying but all it sounds like is a bunch of insecurity. I would be HIGHLY upset if I started dating someone and made them aware of any and all close relationships in my life and he lie about being cool with it all. I am married, for 12 yrs now, and I have a close friend who is like a brother to me. I told my then boyfriend (now husband) that he is one of my very close friends and nothubg went on between us. We all hung out together frequently and both my husband and friend hung out one on one countless times. My friend even calls him and chats with him regularly. My husband has expressed after many years that he wasnt comfortable becausw he is still a guy but I told him nothing is going on AT ALL and I don't want to cut really close friends out my life. I feel if he decided to tell me he wants it to be cut off, that is a form of emotional abuse. That is totally not cool. A spouse is suppose to add to your life, not take away from your life unless its taking away stress and worry.

  72. Ms. Rae

    Ms. Rae

    28 ngày trước

    For the most part I agree with Mr. Harvey's advice right here. My only question is if the shoe were on the other foot and she was a wife to someone would she be afforded the same respect if she had a problem with her husband having a female friend???????...or would she be told she was "insecure" or needed to "be more mature"??? I believe in giving respect as long as I will be recieving it as well. I am all about that 2 way street.

  73. FilMAD Camp

    FilMAD Camp

    28 ngày trước

    🤣🤣🤣 @ the woman shaking her head in the back after this lady asked the question. She was already like "Nope".

  74. Natasha Williams

    Natasha Williams

    28 ngày trước

    Her immaturity is showing. Men and women are not friends, period. I don't care how platonic one may believe it to be, it's all b.s.. And if the man fights for you, you get to have him.

    • DeAndre


      28 ngày trước

      Exactly. Usually, one the sexes wanted to date the other but couldn't and then settled for the friend zone. They've usually kissed or had sex but will lie and say its been platonic for 10 years. Anybody who allows their significant other to have a bestfriend of the opposite sex around deserves what's coming to them.

  75. ANewDay2007


    28 ngày trước

    This lady is thinking like a single woman, which she is. Her tune will change one day when she meets her husband. And HE has a long time friendship with a woman - platonic or not.

    • Special K

      Special K

      28 ngày trước

      Agreed..that is what I am saying what people fail to realize... they only "think" the other person is cool with it because the said other person knows better than to think it's a cool deal... but let it happen to them... it's a whole other ball game... my ex had me cut off guy friends all the while he got to hold onto to his friend girls and had the NERVE to tell me to trust him.. the irony.. but long-story short that's the many many reasons why I do not believe in the opposite-sex friendships cause turns out the guys I was friends with wanted to be with me and my ex's best friend girl wanted him and we were in constant turmoil, confusion, and complications... no thank you for me... leave that to the kids before (emphasis on BEFORE) them hormones kick in... people are really fooling themselves if they think opposite-sex friendships can last a lifetime... the only thing I want to last a lifetime without complications, turmoil, and confusion is my marriage with my future husband and of course my friendships with WOMEN... #ijs #beentheredonethatnotgoingback

  76. Tomara Doss

    Tomara Doss

    29 ngày trước


  77. gunslingah2


    29 ngày trước

    Steve is so right! Homegirl knows what’s up and the Mrs isn’t having it. A good friend of mine just got married for the 2nd time. We were friends throughout his first marriage (she was cool but stepped outside their marriage). His new wife is a really nice lady but I can tell she’s not feeling this friendship even though she smiles and performs. It’s a feeling we women get. Her poor husband is clueless while he’s steadily chatting away. But as a woman, I respect her position and her boundaries. So I’m just happy for dude. She did invite me to the wedding though lol.

    • T C

      T C

      28 ngày trước

      U need to move on....she gon snatch ya wig if u dont find ur place!

  78. ItsMe Gold

    ItsMe Gold

    29 ngày trước

    🙄 and I'm not the wife. Bye Felicia....he don't need no bff, he found his bff when he got his wife. Go have your feelings hurt somewhere else. She made herself too important and is the disrespectful one believing he needs to adjust his wife...smh 🤡🤦🏼‍♀️

  79. soulstrenth crusader

    soulstrenth crusader

    29 ngày trước

    Steve said no no no...thank you! She probably brought some things back to mind for him from past relationships. He's learned the lesson. When people make life changes, the dynamic of other relationships tend to change. She has to abide by the tone the wife sets...even if the wife's insecurity is showing. She the WIFE. Since the wife was disrespectful, she did right by pulling away from the both of them, because the husband can't check her, even on a level of being disrespectful, because it will turn into "oh you're on HER side now???" He doesn't need that attitude in his home. Now in my case, I'm very good friends with the husband, I knew him before I knew her. He introduced us. I talk to his wife constantly and she is one of my best friends. But she's not insecure at all and I know how to stay out of people's relationship. Now if she asks me for some lady knowledge about whatever, I give her my truth and I'm always there for her. We love and respect each other.

  80. Yas Ba

    Yas Ba

    29 ngày trước

    Is this some wierd American thing... can't spouse talk to each other honestly.. she said they like brother sister... lot of insecurity..shows in the Presidency that's for sure..


    29 ngày trước

    again... GIRL B-Y-E!!!! Find some single male "friends" 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽#SteveHarvey


    29 ngày trước

    GIRL B-Y-E!!!!

  83. B Grwl

    B Grwl

    29 ngày trước

    Steve spoke exactly on point.

  84. Lean


    29 ngày trước

    🤣🤣🤣🤣i love Steve, he said no thank u

  85. Fabulous


    29 ngày trước

    She's an idiot... she needs to get lost....she so lost..

  86. PlanB-TV


    29 ngày trước

    That would ruined His home if he confronted his woman over his friends.

    • PlanB-TV


      28 ngày trước

      +T C Hahaha it will definitely not end well.

    • T C

      T C

      28 ngày trước

      Yep definite fistfight! Cops called n all that!

  87. Carenique Turner

    Carenique Turner

    29 ngày trước

    I wondering if everyone with these mean comments really listened? I could've sworn she said that she has in fact severed the friendship already...

  88. Maranatha Georges

    Maranatha Georges

    29 ngày trước

    That's what Gabrielle Union say with Wade ...hummmm

  89. Andri Ramirez

    Andri Ramirez

    29 ngày trước

    He's married maam, wth stay away , y'all relationship will never be the same. Take the L and go, you're not his sister! you should know that by that age lol

  90. Kindah


    29 ngày trước

    If this was a man doing it to a woman, it would be called abuse. Also, if the person you're married to is being disrespectful to your friends then you need to have a serious talk with them. I would never marry somebody who is disrespectful to anybody. That wife should have been mature and took her husband aside. She's either a narcissist or she's simply immature. And her husband is immature for Marrying a childish person and not meeting the needs of his wife sooner.

  91. Cheryl Murray Goggans

    Cheryl Murray Goggans

    29 ngày trước

    You shouldn't expect jack period!!! You must've bumped your head.

  92. Rolo Robbins

    Rolo Robbins

    29 ngày trước

    The first sentence that come out of Steve’s mouth confirms exactly why I can’t get married.

  93. Solja88


    29 ngày trước

    Awwwww she misses her friend

    • DeAndre


      28 ngày trước

      More like, she misses the man she couldn't have and settled for the friendzone. 😂

  94. Tasha Faaumu

    Tasha Faaumu

    29 ngày trước

    This was one the best advices he has given

  95. Jennifer Bowman

    Jennifer Bowman

    29 ngày trước

    Now if it was a man doing this, this would be considered as “isolation” “abuse” “manipulation” and all the women would be singing a different tune. One thing I do agree with is, if it’s making YOU feel bad, leave it alone girl. Let them live their best toxic life. ESPECIALLY if she’s disrespectful toward you, you’re better off without that friendship.

    • Jennifer Bowman

      Jennifer Bowman

      29 ngày trước

      Andri Ramirez That type of relationship is toxic to me. If you do it because you want to or out of respect for your relationship that’s fine but I’m not gonna do it because my husband told me to. This is a partnership, I’m not your child. That’s just how I see it

    • Jennifer Bowman

      Jennifer Bowman

      29 ngày trước

      Andri Ramirez Protect it from what?.... It doesn’t sound like there was a threat. My job as a woman and your job as a man is to make me feel secure not feed my insecurities, but that’s just how I see things.

    • Andri Ramirez

      Andri Ramirez

      29 ngày trước

      no if my husband did this to me i would understand, no need to be hanginh out with anither man that isn't my brother or have blood relatuon to outside of the home. She did what she had to to protect her marriage

  96. Mel Cooper

    Mel Cooper

    29 ngày trước

    He have to respect his wife.

  97. Sweet Sugar 101

    Sweet Sugar 101

    29 ngày trước

    If I'm your wife, you are NOT fixin to be REBUKING me over another sir ree Bob!!

    • Chasiraw


      11 ngày trước

      Sweet Sugar 101 Sips tea 🍵

  98. Ni Morris

    Ni Morris

    29 ngày trước

    She never mentioned having her own man. The wife made the right move. Wishing the best for her and I feel like she has more than just friendly feelings for the friend.

  99. Miss Conceiteality

    Miss Conceiteality

    29 ngày trước

    As I do respect Steve’s advice, we all understand husband and wife relationship that works, is to side amongst the marriage over friendships. Can we be more realistic Steve like this woman is being real about just a friendship I’d say as a man who is already taken and in a marriage he can have a damn conversation with his wife about their friendship and if it leads to to it ending then fine but a conversation obviously needed to be had if he cared at all about the friendship. We can’t talk about marriages working because we also have our own hobbies and things going on outside of it if we can’t even talk to our significant other about when things clash. We can’t just have this immediate “well happy wife happy life” with no explanation that sounds like some resentment down the road

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    Lady that’s his wife. All friendships don’t last forever. Part ways and continue on with your life!

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